Wednesday, December 6, 2017

5 Outfits To Prove You NEED Over The Knee Boots

Let's talk about boots shall we? There are so many different styles, textures and colors that it's a bit hard to keep up at times. I'm a huge fan of them but I don't own nearly as many as I'd like. If you'd ask me years ago, I would've told you that I wasn't sure I could pull off over the knee boots or that they were even really for me and my lifestyle but in recent years I've come to change my stance on this after a mad search for black flat OTK's (as they're known in the fashion world) four years ago. Now I feel like I need to add a variety of colors and heel heights to my collection. Lately, I'm finding myself in love with the idea of dresses and over the knee boots. Shirt dresses, sweater dresses, t-shirt dresses, floral print dresses and more. I can picture so many ways to style them I had no choice but to head to Polyvore and see what I could pull together. 

This is what happens when I'm styling for other people and holiday shopping at the same time. I end up on a creative styling spree of my dreams while not spending a single dime. Which is great for my bottom line and my CFO stays off my back. 

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Can we just talk about how perfectly boho chic this look is? I'm not usually one for florals but paired back to over the knee camel colored boots, a stunning oxblood fedora and dangling earrings it's asking to be taken to a museum or botanical garden for an impromptu photo shoot. 

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There is so much about this ensemble that speaks to me. Simple yet yet makes such a statement. This like my ideal work at home mom life. A little bit sexy, a whole lot stylish and room to eat snacks comfortably. And oxblood boots? Sign me up please. 

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Come through grey boots! I wish the weather were cool enough to wear this on a daily basis. I'd be all over it. Faux fur coat and high boots? Yep. I'm ALL in. This is screaming 'dinner date with my husbae. And who doesn't love a stylish hat? Particularly good for those days your hair just won't cooperate. 

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What's black white and red all over? A checked shirt dress, semi-flat boots and a stylish scarf. Definitely my style.The mixing of larger and smaller checks/plaids gives it an edgy feel while still being cute and still casual(ish) enough to not get stared at while cruising Target. Naturally a red lip is in order for that extra pop of color and sass. 

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I said I wasn't into florals but this particular dress is begging to be paired back to this fun teal pair. By doing so it's actually making me re-consider this dress and not just pass over it while browsing the racks. A great day date look as well as brunch, lunch with the girls or just a day out on the town. 

Clearly my style is evolving yet again as evidenced by all these outfit choices, now only if I could work my magic to make all these pieces appear in my closet without breaking my budget. That would be a holiday miracle. 

Which look is your favorite? 

Monday, November 27, 2017

Saturday Chill

I love Saturday's. I don't always know where the day is going to take me so getting dressed is kind of an adventure. Do I need to be kind of sporty or kind of chic? How do I do both and not look like I'm trying too hard?
Remember those fresh kicks I shared the other day? Well I figured if I'm going to really consider purchasing them, I should probably style them right?

Saturday Chill

I'm obsessed with Rihanna's Fenty Beauty line and am anxiously anticipating her Stunna lip color (red for everyone) due out next week as the Fenty Glow lip gloss is in permanent rotation in my purse. But I love a good red lip so I can't wait to add that to my collection as well. But back to my Saturday look. I like to be comfortable but I also want to be cute. No matter what. And y'all know my love of a graphic tee goes DEEP and that paired with jeans or these fun shiny faux leather leggings, a leather bomber and I've got the perfect 'cool mom' look. This can take me from brunch with the girls, errands and possibly a trip to the movies with the fam. All in day's work for a mom. I could even wear them to a birthday party (because we're about to get back on that five-year old party circuit). I can see these pieces becoming staples in my wardrobe and make no apologies for the fact that you might see me rocking them several weekends in a row.

What's your go-to weekend look?

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Getting Lifted - Lashes That Is

Why is it that boys have all the luck with eyelashes? My brother, my husband and my son all have covetable eyelashes. Mine are hella curly which is awesome but they don't do much beyond that. And some of them like to commit suicide INTO my eyeballs which, as a contact wearer is no bueno. I'm not a fan. My husband has these long wispy lashes and my son got a dope combination of both of our lashes which means they basically look like my favorite pair of false lashes. Lucky little dude. 

I'm also the person who does not leave the house without mascara on. Seriously. If I'm somehow out without it, it's because it's zero dark thirty and I don't think anyone will see me. And even then please believe I have a tube in my purse for back up. 
I've seen friends getting lash extensions for the last few years but was super on the fence (and just a tiny bit terrified) until earlier this year. I declared that when I could squeeze it into my schedule and budget I too,was going to have long luscious lashes.
Luckily for me I was introduced to Sara the owner of Natural Lash & Brow in my hometown and she introduced me to eyelash lift.

Have you ever heard of an eyelash lift? I hadn't up until Sara suggested it. And since I have been low-key obsessing about lash extensions, when Sara suggested a lift I was game. 
I am all about anything that makes my mom life easier. Not fooling w/ my eyelashes and applying layer after layer of mascara to make them look decent or fighting w/ lash strips to add length and volume each day? Sign me up. 


So what is a lash lift and why do you want one? (trust me you want one) It's exactly what it says, it's a lift for your lashes. Instead of curling them more, it lifts them to new heights and lengths and takes away the morning eyelash curler  mascara struggle. 
Who doesn't want more volume, lengthier lashes? No one, that's who. 

Immediately after application I could see a difference (well, after I put my glasses on because a sister is blind y'all). but I was super impressed. Admittedly I was nervous about how it was going to turn out but I was already smitten out the box. I couldn't wait to see what they would look like in a few days and after a swipe of mascara. After the treatment I was instructed not to get them wet or wear any makeup for 24 - 48 hrs which was a bit tricky as I had a brunch date the next morning but hey that's what big shades  and lipstick are for right? 

The lift lasts up to 8 weeks which is ideal for a busy mom. No, trying to squeeze in bi-monthly appointments for touch ups and no need to worry about lash glue messing up your natural lashes.

Almost four weeks later I'm still smitten. My morning routine has been cut in half and I barely wear any mascara at all! It took about 12 hours but even my husband noticed the visible difference and was impressed with the length I know have. 


I am absolutely willing to do the lift again and can't wait to see how it looks with extensions added in for even more volume! And can I just tell you how dope Sara is? Her whole vibe is in alignment with mine in that we strive to help women feel their best and find their inner shine. She does hers with lashes and brows, I do mine with clothing. It's like a match made in heaven. 


If you're local to So Cal give Sara at Naturel Lash & Brow a call and let her make your eyelash dreams come true! 

Thursday, November 16, 2017

Rose Gold, Rose Quartz and Rosé

I'm not big on dressing up for the holidays and usually the week leading up to Thanksgiving and Christmas has me running around like a chicken with it's head cut off in jeans and sneakers. I like to keep things simple and be comfortable, but I also like to be cute. The weekend of Thanksgiving is when my bestie and I have our annual bottomless mimosa brunch. And I do mean annually
She doesn't live here any more so we don't get to sit around and cackle as often as we like. She's also one of like, five people I would cross several freeways for so when she comes to town; it's going DOWN. We brunch hard and for hours. It's just what we do.
And we all know brunch is just as much about being cute as it is about the mimosas and the food. So for me, an outfit that brings all of that to into play is really what's poppin. 

My homegirl Xenia just launched a new limited edition sweatshirt "Rose Quartz Is My Homegirl" and I legit SCREAMED when I saw it. 

thanksgiving week

Rose quartz was the second crystal I ever owned thanks to her and she gifted it to me. Honestly, ever since that moment, my life has changed in so many ways. So when she first dropped it as a tee I snatched it up, post haste. But when it arrived, I knew it wasn't 'for me' per se and had to pass it on. So I in turn, gifted the tee to my other crystal carrying homegirl. She posted a photo wearing it a few weeks back and I was instantly salty I hadn't bought another one. And then this sweatshirt drops just in perfect timing with the weather so I knew it was a sign and I had to have it. I also found these rose gold Nike's and was like well they just go together! Y'all know I'm about that sneaker game and statement tee life. Paired with some stunna shades and my favorite lip gloss from Fenty Beauty? Giiirrrrl. You won't be able to tell me nothing at brunch. NOTHING. 

This outfit also works when hanging out with the fam over the holidays and we all know you can't really show up someplace, eat up all the good food and not bring something. So even if you're not cooking, a bottle of rosé is always a good idea. Sometimes, two bottles is better. 

Just saying. 

What are your favorite outfits to wear around the holidays?

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H&M slim fit jeans
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NIKE rubber sole shoes

Ray-Ban ray ban glasses
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Puma lip gloss

Crewneck sweatshirt

Wednesday, November 15, 2017

Undercover Sneaker Lover

As my style has evolved over the years there are is something that has remained consistent: I'm kind of obsessed with sneakers.
And I have been for years. If you look at photos from my college years, that's pretty much all that's in our closet and my roommate had an even better collection than I did. We had everything from shell toes to air max's and puma's, we did not discriminate. 
Admittedly there was a time when I didn't want to wear them so much and was 'all heels all the time' because I thought I "needed" to wear them to be taken seriously as wife and mother (snort) but as I've gotten older (and had more kids) I've realized, I'm actually a sneaker head at. I also happen to enjoy heels. But that's not my every day shoe of choice. 
Duality and balance. That's what it's all about.

Currently I'm crushing everything Nike. I'm not 100% brand loyalist as I do love my Adidas shell toes but for the last few years - Nike has been killing the game for me. They've been really doing their part to keep things fresh and current. They're so on trend I can't stand it and recently dropped a pair of rose gold air max that I absolutely lost my mind over. I discovered them just last week and they're already sold out. I even went so far to reach out to my friends that work for the brand (yeah I got a sneaker guy, a couple actually; ask about me) and they both said no dice.
I know all the fashionistas copped a pair and I'm super jelly about it! I was just waiting to get paid again!
I have never wanted a pair of Air Max's so badly! But, I still found a few others that made my heart go pitter pat. Gold, rose gold, lavender and midnight blue? Be still my heart. 
I only wish I could afford to stock my closet with all eight pair but 1) that would be pricey and a little excessive 2) I'm still shooting for somewhat of a minimalist approach to my closet so I'm also trying to pare down a bit. But damn if I can't think of a way to style all of these and how dope they'd look on my feet. I mean - do you see how sick those lavender Air Force One's are? They scream: Amber! 

Matter of fact, I might be over due for some new kicks.......

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Tuesday, November 14, 2017

An Open Letter To Saturday School

I picked up my exuberant Kindergartner last Tuesday and was surprised when he handed me an official looking letter from the school. It stated that he had been marked absent at some point in the last 3 months and as part of their 'perfect attendance incentive' being offered to "make up" the absence by attending Saturday school the weekend that kicks off their Thanksgiving break.

Wait, what?

He's in KINDERGARTEN y'all. Why the eff would I send him to Saturday school for four hours? Aside from racking my brain to think if he even missed a day (turns out we skipped a day when he got his new cast) he's already only there for four hours! Why would I send him in on the weekend to "make up" the hours? 
That makes no sense. 
Upon further reading I discovered it was optional but to continue with their push of perfect attendance they were advising we go. You read that right. They want the kids to strive for the "perfect attendance incentive" at the end of the year so you can go to school on a Saturday and 'make up' the hours you missed.
Umm yeah that's a no from me dawg. A big FAT no, nope, no way, no how. 
Why are we doing this to kids again? So the school can get more funding? I'm a firm believer in supporting our public schools in all the ways I can but this? Nah, fam. I'm not down with this nonsense. 

Parents and administrators often wonder why kids are so stressed out at a young age and I'm a firm believer that this is one of the reasons. Pushing perfect attendance and trying to get them to come in to complete that act on their day off is just compounding these emotions. I see kids freaked out running full speed to get to their class on time and fretting about missing a single day because they're sick or have a travel day for vacation and they shouldn't be feeling that at all.

Yes, we want our children to understand commitment and school is the first place they learn to show up on time and daily BUT do we want to put so much pressure on them to NEVER MISS A SINGLE DAY so that they start to panic if they are even a minute late? 
I think not. 
Grwoing up we basically had to cough up a lung,and prove it, in order to stay home from school (perks of having parents in the medical field) meanwhile I had peers who's parents let them skip on days they were "tired" or "stressed" and just needed a break. I was jelly for sure as I was there sick or not. So when my oldest began school I vowed I wouldn't be such a stickler. If we wanted to stay an extra day on vacation, we did. If she wanted to cut out earlier and spend time w/ cousins, we let her, if she missed a day because she was up too late the night before, meh, no big deal. Mental health days are just as necessary for kids/teens as they are for adults but we push our kids to go so hard we often miss when they need them. And they do need them. 

 Before you start rolling your eyes she's always had her work done, rarely missed a test and we called in to be responsible. But making them go when they are truly in the weeds just seems wrong. Hell, adults call out sick just to get a break (and sometimes to head to Disneyland) so why can't kids?

I don't know y'all, I'm just not about putting so much pressure on kids at such a young age. Perfect attendance is great thing to strive for, but I'll be damned if I'm going to send my five-year old to school on a Saturday to achieve it and all so the school can get more funding from the state. 

Judge your mom and worry about your eyebrows. 

Friday, November 10, 2017

She Likes The Cars With The Boom

image via: Honda

I am the first to admit I was once incredibly naive when it came to cars. For years, I had no idea what rpm and horsepower had to do with how my car functioned, let alone that the framing and type of gas could affect the speed durability of my vehicle. It wasn't in my mind to even consider it. I was more interested in the sound system and whether or not the driver's side had a mirror in the driver's side. 

But somewhere along the way, probably after having kids, I began to think more about how my cars operated and what they were made of. As a mother I'm absolutely concerned about safety. Nothing makes me angrier than when someone drives foolishly and I have my kids in the car. 

image via: Honda

image via: Honda


Recently,I learned that the steel of today is much stronger than the steels used decades ago and three to four times stronger than the rest of the aluminum alloys on the market makes me so happy. That means my car is safer now than it was when I first became a mom 15 years ago. That makes me ridiculously happy even if I don't always understand how it all works. I do know that if anything happens to us we are protected and that makes me feel good. 
You know what else I found out? The steel components used on cars are recyclable and allow for more sustainability for future use. Yeah that's right, steel products are able to be recycled into other products without losing any of their quality! Y'all, I had no idea. Who did? And as someone who is increasingly aware of the world I'm creating and leaving for my children this is something that is very important to me.

image via: Honda

It's also important to me to have a car that is both functional and fabulous. I can't wait to check out all that Honda has to offer as I've heard so many amazing things about the Odyssey and what a great car it is. As our kids get bigger and they have more 'stuff' from all their activities, it's necessary to have a vehicle that fits it all. And has enough tech features for us all. Here in So Cal we basically live in our cars and because of our hectic schedule I am often in need of being able to do work in the car either while on the road to somewhere or waiting for someone to get out of practice. I need outlets and the ability to have the people in the back be comfortable and not harass the adults in the front about the music and whatnot. 

So when I got invited to attend the auto show this year, I jumped at the chance. For as long as I can remember, I have been a fan of the L.A. Auto Show. It seems weird coming from a non car aficionado, but I love being able to touch and see all of the cars coming out in person. I like all the bells and whistles and how shiny and new everything looks. 
I'm a dreamer so I like to imagine all the places I could go in each car. My dad and I used to go to the show every year and it's always been a favorite event of mine. So you can imagine my excitement at the idea of attending the show this year. It's been awhile since I've gone and I'm so looking forward to it. And, this time, I also get to give away some tickets so YOU can go too and hopefully make the same type of memories I did!

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Wednesday, November 8, 2017

Yes, I Make Myself Breakfast Everyday

When I learned that Baby Ninja was only going to be in school until 12pm I absolutely grumbled. I work from home and am the primary care person for my father which means I have to do a lot of scheduling for appointments for him and I still have work to finish. All by 12pm. I also knew this would cut into my mornings as a creative person. Sometimes my juices don't get flowing until 11am so I've got to get in where I fit in and squeezing errands into that time is sometimes hard for me.

A lot of people say "Amber you have four hours to yourself to run errands and do work why do you complain?" and I respond;"Well, after drop off I come home, make coffee and eat breakfast that only gives me about 3.5 hrs to do what I need to do sans kids. Not including time spent in the car going to and from these excursions."  
"But why do you have to make breakfast? Can't you just pick up something, do something easy like yogurt/ cereal or just skip it?" And yeah, I could. And sometimes I do pick up something if I HAVE to hit the stores early or take my dad to the doctor but I rarely skip breakfast anymore.

Here's why:

1) Because I matter. Mothers often put themselves last on all their lists and take care of their families needs first. I used to be totally guilty of this. I would skip breakfast in order to get the things done on  my list so before picking up the kids but you know what that made me? A bitch.
I would be STARVING and would take my hanger out on the hubs or the kids so I make it a point to eat breakfast each day.

2) I often skip lunch. Because I have limited morning hours I don't always get lunch at lunchtime. I pick up my son, make him a quick lunch, put him down for a nap, then hop right back into my work and don't stop until it's time to pick up the teenager. This means I rarely sit down to eat a proper lunch and again - hanger. If I'm eating breakfast, I at least have something to tide me over until dinner that's not just a few handfuls of cheez-its.

3) It makes me stop and slow down for a bit. Even if I'm sitting at my desk eating or have my phone at the table scrolling emails and making lists/ notes on things I need to get done for the day. Savoring my breakfast allows me to stop for just a minute and think clearly about my day before plunging in feet first.

4) I love bacon. I mean c'mon. If you've seen any of my InstaStories or IG posts you know how much I like my bacon and there is no shame in my bacon making game. I will make myself several pieces and not think twice about it. It's the perfect complement to almost any breakfast and since I don't do cold cereal (milk is not my friend) this makes all the sense.

Listen, my breakfasts aren't "fancy" by any means, I'm not making French toast y'all, but I do make a mean avocado toast and I do like the occasional egg white scramble so judge your mom and worry about your eyebrows and let me eat in peace.


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